Archive for April, 2009
As I walked in the door, I hang my coat on the coat hook and look into the mirror like I have a million times before and remember back to the time when we bought this custom etched mirrored coat rack as one of the gifts for dad on Father’s Day when I was a small child. We ordered it so carefully making sure it was just the right size and shape, and would say just the right sentiment; after all, personalized gifts are not returnable! But the moment we had waited for finally came and Dad opened it and he seemed so surprised and happy with his mirrored gift. He even placed it at the door of the home we had on the lake.
I had no idea how important this piece would become over time. Every weekend we’d go there and fish, or swim, and had a great time. I don’t ever remember being bored, even though we didn’t have a television or computer there. Dad would play card games with us kids or tell us stories without ever having to look at a book. And then Sunday would come and were forced to leave the cabin. We would gather our caps and jackets off the hooks of that etched mirror and head to our weekday lives. Thinking of the times we would have together when we next would gather at the cabin.
No matter what happens in life, no matter how bad a situation I’ve found myself in, I could always go back to a time at the lake where dad in his infinite wisdom would tell a story or impart some wisdom that would make me see my bad situation in a better light. Intriguing how that one childhood gift can evoke such strong memories. I never would have dreamed that this gift idea for dad would span generations, and be remembered fondly by the whole family.
So many years have passed since that time and I now am looking at the old man in the custom etched mirror. He seems so similar to my dad! And then the memories come flooding back of the time I spent with dear old dad at the cabin. The fun times that we had planning and all the time that was spent with each other was not the important thing instead it was the investment in each others lives. Time spent with dad was certainly not time spent in vain. It was time spent learning, laughing, and enjoying the person he was. I can only hope that when my boys grow up they will look into this personalized, custom etched mirror that used to be their grandpa’s, and remember the times they spent with their dad with such splendor. This mirror that is a reflection of much simpler times. Could there be any better gift than one that will build memories of Dad?

A new baby is a time for celebrating and hope for the future, but mixed-up with all this excitement new parents can often feel anxious and overwhelmed. First-time parents are especially prone to feelings of anxiety. There is so much to know and so many different items are needed to provide proper infant care.
A baby shower party is a great excuse for friends and family of the parents-to-be to get together before the baby arrives. Gifts that are brought to the baby shower also help ease the financial pressure on the new parents as new baby accessories, furnishings and gadgets are supplied.
Although many people today tend to forget about traditions, when it comes to hosting a baby shower many of the traditional guidelines are still followed. A big difference to baby showers today is that they are no longer women only events. A lot of men are included on the guest lists of baby shower’s today and look forward to attending the event. While they might not play in all the baby shower games, men do enjoy the opportunity to give their regards to the expectant mother- and father-to-be.
In some cultures however, a baby shower is considered a sign of bad luck. It is very important that you check with the expectant mother, in case she feels this way, before proceeding with any baby shower plans.
Some parts of the world hold the baby shower after the baby has been born. This makes sense since a baby shower is a celebration of the baby and guests enjoy actually seeing the one who is being celebrated. It’s also easier to select gender-appropriate colors and gifts and should the gift need engraving, guests have all the delivery details they need.
Although holding the baby shower after the baby has been born does make sense, this can be a very busy times for new parents. But you need to bear in mind that many of the items a new baby needs are needed as soon as the baby arrives home. This is why scheduling the baby shower prior to the baby’s arrival is the more preferred option.
Activities at a baby shower all tend to be the same, as baby showers are not quite a traditional event. Invitations for guests needs to be thought about, created and sent out. The shower location needs to be decorated. Guests expect to be entertained so food, drink and games need to be coordinated. It is not unusual to have a photographer and/or and videographer at these events seeing at they are such special accassions.
It is important to carefully co-ordinate your baby shower as there are lots of little details to think about, like supplying baby shower favors to your guest, all costing money.. That’s why it’s highly advisable for whoever is hosting the shower to put together (and stick to) a workable budget.
Coming up with a successfull Modern Baby Shower Ideas is not difficult, but it does need to be well thought-out including a realistic budget and timeline.
Sometimes it is challenging to come up with the best gift ideas for dad. One of the greatest gifts you can give him is time. As well as giving dad time, spending quality time with dad is fun too. Dads love to cook on the grill during the summertime and what better way than to spend a fun afternoon barbecuing together as a family. Dad can enjoy branding his own steak and sizzling up a great meal of fun with a steak branding iron. Unique dad gifts like this last the whole year and can be used again and again.
If you live far away the simple act of coming to visit would be the best gift you can imagine. If you absolutely cannot get away to visit then a nice long phone call would be good. What most fathers want more than anything is to spend more time with their children to get to know them and be more involved in their lives.
Another way to give a gift of time is simply to put time into the gift. You can give your time to be of assistance to him in the garden, around the house, or on a project. You could commit some time to go fishing with him. You could show him that you put time into the gift you do present him with.
Companies have some great personalized gifts such as a custom etching. These could include personalized etched messages or words you want to be remembered over time. Some other gifts for dad that show you put some time into them are presents that you make yourself. If you can work with wood you may prefer to make a nice framed mirror or picture frame for him. If you are the creative sort you could make a nice painting or frame a nice photo of you and him together. He may also delight in a hand written letter that is from the heart or a poem you wrote yourself. You may also choose to think about having the poem framed.
Other gifts of time might involve planting a tree in his yard or somewhere in his honor. You could also do some job for him around the house. You could organize and decorate a room to be better. You may also choose to wash his car or rake some leaves for him. Think of any little idea to make his day more pleasing.
You could also merge buying a gift with giving the gift of time by taking him shopping for the gift. You know you loved it when you were a kid and were given some money to spend however you wanted. You could do the same and give a gift card or tell him an amount you will spend and spend time with him at[/spend] the mall. It is a picking out a gift for dad you know he will most appreciate the gift of time. He will be thankful for both the gift of time with you and the gift of the time he knows you spent thinking about him. One thing all fathers have in common is wanting to spend more time with their loved ones and to feel closer with them.





